Monday, December 20, 2010

Q & A Manchurian focus

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1, do you think will be derailed inherited? my boyfriend has an affair outside the parents, not divorce, his father now lives with the woman on the outside, the reality we are forced to live together with his mother. I do not like their approach does not seem to be my boyfriend care about this, you said it would affect his future? He is currently on my Daoye Ting, and can post it, after all, did not how long we were together, I hope Shun Shun sister to me according to your experience points Thank you!
derailment is not genetic, but a tire inner tube, nature. derailed his home father and mother were able to let you know, only that his parents are not depressed nature, are also not careful, of course, blame Cheap to tell you his mouth, he did not say this, how can you know. In fact, I would say that any person has the possibility of derailment, unless his / her genital problems, and spirit completely prime, otherwise Who hit who can not be tempted favorite emotion. but not derailed anyone, depending on the individual pursuit and self-binding. As for your boyfriend, the family effect is likely to make him more acceptable to the derailment and the future, you derailment of his own. If you insist that the derailment was inexcusable behavior, then talk to him now just as clearly, if he accepts the concept of your marriage, you have no reason why the current practice of his parents broke up with him.
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2, 27 unmarried women, married three years ago the work of understanding the reasons for men, men married at first to conceal the history of women in which one and fell in love with men. weekday SMS contact, meet several times a year. Now men and career Cheng, says it is prepared to take his wife and children around, as they originally separated the two. women are suffering, said male and female can not marry, the woman did not want to affect the future, I hope women will have a better future; and said to his wife and children received after close contact with the woman, but would be less. shameless women think men can be had to face the facts, in fact, women never expected to be with him. women decided to give up this feeling, start a normal life, and thank you man have given love. women have been physically and mentally exhausted, how to make their own transition hurdle it, people change so fast. because of their age pressure, in fact, this year, several women also blind, but could not find feeling , the other half looks like the future will not be the woman of love, the heart can not fit so much.
single encounter married, this result is inevitable. you hate him mercilessly, might as well hate ignorant. Now he couples to reunion, you asked for a break, this is normal development of the law, should accept my gift, not this sad. You have to think, in the past I have received from him that I wanted, because he can not give me more, so I want to substitutions, and another generous than he, give me a stable life of marriage and men. do not think they are being eliminated, all things are contradictory, the gains will lose, but there shall be any errors. < br> hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
3, her boyfriend and I are feeling good, but not very good, I always lack a sense of security. he prefers to play, now mainly operated by the family business, he wanted to come out alone, self-employed a shop, he wanted me to quit my job with him. My job although wages in general, no promotion opportunities, but it is stable. Now employment is not easy, I'm afraid that when poor management, very serious consequences.
not registered in the before marriage, do not need him with the joys and sorrows. cherish your work, it means that your future care.
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4, always pay attention to his chats with a lot of people that he likes ambiguous, with One woman looks like a very intimate relationship, mutual pity, or even say contact, I still hold on. shun sister, how do you think the spirit of derailment? how to keep the spirit of the body evolved into derailment derailment? I insinuated to him that I already knew what he was up?
not knock flanking hit him, kick him directly is the best policy, because there is derailed when the signs of love, who, no matter the moral or physical, are unreliable people, he will be intensified after marriage, instead of being mad at him, throwing better than abandon, to find another relatively reliable man.
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5, distress. betrayed the former boyfriend, I married a man than I am 20, and now I regret it, you can already have a year old son. Which is good husband, but I'm not forget ex-boyfriend, who had been confessor (love decade). I love the ex-boyfriend, forget him, but he is nothing this man can say, perhaps I am shameless in his Money can not choose between his son, and if no son, I might go into exile with him, but now have a son, the son of the material have everything I want. and I'm not happy with her husband, nor happiness, how can I to do it, is to take a leave?
you still go, his children go, so you can still have a baby all of his father, and you can then the desire and love together. tell the truth, you are a man with you are very unlucky, you leave him his happiness, the old man is more need love his woman.
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6, 39, a divorced woman with a 14 boys, a house and a car. a year ago by colleagues introduced to a male, 43, divorced with a 11-year-old girl. They are civil servants, women slightly better economic conditions, male position slightly higher. just know when the men are very enthusiastic, his daughter is also very sticky a female. Female ex-husband for divorce is derailed lead to lack of female insecurity, more sticky, but at people doing things this man is extremely strong, extremely not like to be tied, so occasional small conflicts. Shortly male promotion, treatment has improved, a substantial increase in workload, holidays often work overtime, past warm gradually disappeared, and occasionally also some perfunctory meeting. the promise of marriage again after the shift. woman asked, men always say busy, to be postponed, then simply no longer has any promise. contact, though they do not find other people involved, but that male no longer interested in the female no longer have interest in sex. very sorry to pay the original, now lost two out of human wealth, but do not quit, this feeling has become strained. period, the women talked about breaking up, men do not agree, but not how to retain, but said to find time to talk about, but he will never have the time. shun, as such a tasteless, how can I do?
Yes, even sex with before, is he cool things you cool, this is not your nothing with, of course, you can cheek with him to return to the original as he spent the money, Do not be afraid, since the spectrum did not get married, he had to eat you should spit it out. politely to return the money, After that decisive turn.
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7, female and male undergraduate and graduate students when, 27, will graduate this year married a year for three years in love. female high 165, looks good, outstanding male appearance, an outgoing, when studying many suitors, and occasionally other girls that little ambiguous, have no injuries overall, good for women. Recently men looking for work in the Architectural Design Institute, the wage level, the unit is busy, women not looking for work, feeling male of female negligence, as before thoughtful, not text messages and phone all day, more and more time to go home from work late. premarital women also have other suitors, but also used to be praised, and now feel very lost at home every day cooking, her husband came back, fast plus the nanny into the Housewife, and women have a sense of crisis. The day my husband smiling, and even gave her husband a married female colleague to eat partial meals, to lend her husband a number of expensive books, alas, now I have a peek at his cell phone and the impulse of the QQ, are you married to such a big change?
find is handsome price alert the enemy to pour in, so you vote for him was a mistake, but now already married, and can only bite the bullet and move forward red. Do not be too concerned about his movements and attitudes, not all men are eating grass nest side hobby, not all men wanted to abandon the Zaokang derailed. This 2 points can make you a man in the unit basically chastity. you want to expand their social circle rich, so that it can calm the panic should he not at home. as long as you have a friend who had entertainment, you will not worry about his every word and deed was. And even if Pakistan had a woman lick and lose him, You should also welcome is: money is the touchstone to see someone try to spend your man, try his own money than you strong? if he could not stand trial, such a man can not lead their lives with you, you also use He had a fear of being kidnapped? abducted early morning is good, we delay the less Shaohua.
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8, for nearly 7 years, 5 years of performance is very good, substantial prize money, of course. The first 6 years old baby, finished off a five-month maternity leave to work schedule, team leader in the distribution of prize money when I was 6 fold to accept. be the first 7 years, that is, when I was assigned last year, 7.5 fold, to other people also have a discount, So I paid my heart sick Moreover, other groups have not calculated in this way, polite euphemism to say to my comments: This is not fair. see also more head of no face, more angry surprise, the next I am also disturbed worry about regret and hate myself. wise Shun-shun, now how do?
things are done, it would readily accept the consequences of it, head If so difficult for you, you can also find reflected in the higher-ups. But This year, we must work hard and be careful not to handle the baskets and the people. In fact, there are views to express, not necessarily a bad thing, at least have to understand that the head: You are not any punches either, not by his casual Pinch.
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9, female 27, graduated 4 years has been working in a company, the company is not very formal, depends on the boss who ruled that impression. dismissed the previous month was the boss, the boss said the company has a girl crush on the boss, will be very loyal to his boss, the hostess call themselves entirely to the company, and the bosses do not stop this behavior, but a bit ambiguous. The girl does not like me because she was stronger than my ability to work. boss said, I do not understand the work ultimately comes down to relationships between men and women, he said, I usually dress and every three years can not arouse his interest, so me and the girl in contradiction, he would instinctively tend to the girl and fired me. He told me to learn Freud.
along sister, my undergraduate degree, have a strong ability to work, work better than the girl completely, I may dress more conservative, but also attention to the relationship between work and leadership. So this month has been to not understand that the right boss, do not work, mainly to see the ability to work? very confused also a shock, because the work has been learning more excellent, others not received such a negative, so I do the negative, I do not know how the future work. Comparison of hate that girl in front of the boss says bad things about me, hate the boss can not see my ability to work.
girl, you are lucky enough to escape prostitution claw your boss, not happy? you that the boss is a Small rogue wild ways, talk insane, man is not authentic, you give this man your work is, unfortunately, now he just fired you, then go find a job, find a female subordinate does not harass or insult the decent boss, you only more promising.
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10, A woman of 29, married with children, a subsidiary in charge of large companies, the couple basic harmony, because the couple have strong personality and often noisy, but counted live, but very few of .2 years ago, higher headquarters executives (40 married) When a dilemma, and the sparks A comfort, a ML, love to take care of each other (outsiders do not know). During the two sides have spent the truth, A subsidiary of women in the exercise of the next manager, was promoted to head men's president in power. A woman stumbled upon with a number of men and women of any ambiguity, President, ML, and found his wife and children than men outside (with his wife and asexual for years, but men want a strong, good effort ), while a concubine and daughter. A woman was injured very Wohuo. At present, A for I do not know women, but men have gone away, men are still phone text messages a day (men and several other women for that matter), once a month or two, see ML . A woman is uncomfortable, if separated, having left, has put the truth, and so far, men are still very obedient in other ways, work-life care, adding the event to help resolve the difficulties, there is gratitude and psychological factors in women, to accompany him to the old, move the true feelings of psychological dependence; if not minutes, A Girl and self-interference, check the whereabouts of his phone, one angry, aggrieved and no place to send. Please pointing along sister, how should I do? it must be separated , if not separate, how do I want to open mind, tolerance to him, to accompany him to the old do?
stealing is stealing, there are people evacuated to steal the law? know his identity to only their job, just share of the benefits of other, less misses are less refined. because you re thinking about re-refined, you can never expect to steal him as your husband. That being so, what is also tinkering live.
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12, love, understanding of 5 years broke up 16 years .4, May After he was introduced to a female friend. In fact, we ever broke up in April when they met, and then went to bed less than .5 at the end of January, he came back to me that after this episode I know who is his favorite , hoping to compound. I have not put down agreed. He said that woman back with .6 months make it clear some things out of his house, and I know he and that woman has always been good. I'm sad, I know man so many years, that so many hypocrites. He said that people like me, his mother may not like me. he along with that woman, his mother could do business with her. I was prepared and institutions, and that women to do foreign trade, more money than I do. I feel that I have mistaken, he has been talking about trying to persuade his mother, can the result was disappointing. morning and called in the past, turned out to be that woman on the phone. I am not convinced more disappointing is that man.
into, call it, even if you know 160 years, he was still the faithless faithless, change of heart this is the number of years do not look at communication . you should be happy: so philistine, he and his mother finally got rid of by you.
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13, you say The reason we do not derailed, not because we do not want to derail, but we still love the feelings of extramarital sex extramarital affairs are excluded, this exclusion is the power of traditional moral values, rather than instinct do not want to derail. Marriage can be tied just the body, the mind can not. It depends on each of you own, is something more powerful call center, or a strong moral sense of those reasons.
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14, if they basically confirmed to be together, living together before marriage how? My boyfriend and I have been living together a year, feeling pretty good, many people may say that living together before marriage is not good, but one thing I felt that I could. premarital cohabitation, married life is ahead of time, a lot of life in trivial little things emerge one by one, We are working hard to communicate and resolve, so that more and more harmonious, after the marriage of a little more confidence. If even the days of cohabitation are not working, then it can end.'m glad we are a good place to go, and we were not inconsistent in principle, or lack of coordination, can communicate with each other, help each other to solve the problem. However, I do not understand, because of living together, who may appear more than cooking and laundry and other more minor who , or who would do less housework to do ah such a mess, and we are working hard to solve, and occasionally life and life will be so stingy. you how to solve this? how to be more coordination point? Moreover, these problems before marriage, in the end is good thing or a bad thing?
cohabitation on the premise that the woman not afraid of being abandoned, the men are not afraid of the future send a punitive expedition of your hymen. cohabiting good indeed also as you said, you can run ahead of time, the wrong people do not need to create one for him history of the marriage. but living together is to live together, married, some right and wrong, living together can not avoid, if both sides can treat each other, it is easy to harmonious cohabitation. and marriage, like life, requires patience, living together also need patience and tolerance, in advance of tolerance, as long as enough sleep and entered in the marriage can still insist, that is a good thing, on the contrary, marriage suddenly turned hostile, there is no point in living together before marriage.
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15, LG existing debt, but he an idealist, and believe that money is the way to his house every night gave him to the end of the year I counted how much money. Sometimes I test him: Do you think I work very hard now, so next year you make money I will not go to work. A said this his face to change, says that people should have their own work, that he must be able to feed themselves. reason I know his heart in particular twist, he now sometimes I appreciate the hard work that I tired. It seems so since he did not really make any money I spend some part, I was very uneven. Shun Shun sister, you said I was not silly? how do you see what he had?
you a man is a typical The only pain is not common with the main Gan, and now he needs you trust him to encourage him to accompany him, will he once fortune, must be their own money to happy to go hug. But you do not balance, this dream of getting rich every day people, usually the mothers, you'd always get him to be careful when you use the meal ticket.
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16, my master, height 166, looks good, the top three hospitals in the work, busy with work, no weekends . boyfriend is a key secondary technical administrative staff, 168 undergraduate, and looks in general. They work unit distance, he would come to my side of the weekend, love to me during the good years after the marriage began to discuss matters relating to begin decorating the house, 6 month of renovation, from June to me cold, call less than before, and the talk time is short, conversations are basically decorated, very little to say sweet. After the summer break in July he rarely came to see me, then I leave that look for him, he found reason to refuse my past, I asked if there feelings, he then mentioned breaking up, attitude is very firm very thorough. on the ground that I feel bad for some time, because the thought me mean. I earn 7000 His 3000 salary, family situation is not good, are struggling on their own, they raised a common decoration of marriage, I said, I said if you need money, the period also asked if he could have money, you do not I send him some money In the past, he said there are thousands and not to. Q along sister, he is great pressure because of money advice to me? mention broke up I sent him a text message had explained that he did not return, has not contacted me, I still need to win?
do not fight, he should have a new love.
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17, you are really amazing, I'm more and more trust. The day before yesterday just to see your reply, that he may not really love me, let me tonight that he had brought a woman to the place where we often date. It seems out of character sub-Wan Yan successful woman became his killer. Now the problem is that he is my boss, I work under him for ten years, has been very appreciated by him. He also thinks highly of me. He lost his wife I am unmarried, with his good friend is also a matter of this year, he thought I was serious, not fun of me, after all, the ability to work okay I, the company has no competition, so when we say break, I was put in this situation seriously. Though you have been reminding my colleagues do not engage in love, but I was too confident, not The result is that thought now.
company treated well, I was reluctant to leave but stay and do not know how to face him and feared he would not deliberately make things difficult for me. If you go out to work, although looking for it, but certainly not a good treatment now, and I also for the room. shun give me advice, and I how to get along with him, only to keep the job without losing both self-esteem, or simply left the company over a period of hard time being? But if this greater my loss.
Why should resign, what he just did not want to marry you, and not want to use you. As an employee, you still have the presence necessary. Do not talk to him falling out, put I do not know what to do, nothing happened and continue humbly to his work, such as the mortgage has finished, or have a better slot, we jump anyway. Now you are a vacuum when he strike.
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18, divorced six years, divorce, nothing has been drifting. Last year, he told me to take the child (when she became ill, he said, with a good real mother), I took a year and a half, he was renting to We ladies live. mother and daughter together, although some constraints, but also happy that this year her daughter to secondary school, and he treated her back, which means do not rent a room. In fact, he had me take my daughter is a premeditated, He was like, and second child of divorce, no one to help him take care of her daughter, and I later found out, daughter also forget, did not care about him. Later he learned that there has been a primary three, I do not know how he could, bringing her back to. I do not know him to consider our daughter's feelings? that points to points! his conditions are good, his daughter can not stand the pain to go back, but so frustrating how much of the psychological impact of her daughter? now she was picked up during the holidays, rent empty too soon expire, I was not the taste. so many years a person, nothing, that there are a small store maintenance, do not do good business in recent weeks, and now a three-no staff, how to do later ? residence? work? for a quick forty women will have what results?
child picked up after the household chores you less a person did not tie him no trouble, went to live do it, the first stabilized livelihoods, economic development things think about the future. daughter grow up fast, whether you're a few days with her, she told you the future parents will give you a pension. now took good care of yourself, and then work to find a living will can be, anyway, you have nothing, not even the pressure, what can worry about the.
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19, I divorced, and looks not ugly, income can still have a car to a woman three years to bring their own. know What a man reading a PhD in psychology (later found out his profession, he also revised the law), several years younger than me. first meeting after the divorce because very few children Qindie visit, and male siblings have agreed to treat each other so that her daughter more contact with the opposite sex in order to facilitate growth, he had it all I can to help. However, after meeting him on the old contact, and express their love for children is also good, and gradually with him better. before her husband was not alive, has been widow, Dr. activities especially good, people mortals Sugar Lee (ha ha, sex class a), very much. along with the cooking when the kids and so on, still more harmonious. that he is poor no money, care about too, do not care about gradually, and and put into a relationship. that he had ex-girlfriend, said feelings of deep, a mistake left him, before he was hurt, may not know me when they come out. He and I talked about getting married to have children, I say to be postponed. then he went behind my ex-girlfriend, but also for the table would like to do something very extreme had not been able to restore, was I found that they really end after.
He repeatedly asked me, I had want to break up, but the heart has to accept defeat, did not happen I have prepared in advance to accept all his, and also preparing to get married after a year or two at the matter even after the contacts already do not trust my heart, always wanted to break up these two days, but sometimes will miss his sex, but also when dealing with joy. of very happy, communication is very smooth, like he actually does not love me, maybe just curious about my life (I am self-reliant enough to live comfortably). He said I had to work with . This relationship is not should not be continued? because I think many do not want to continue to pay, fear of the back injury. and even enjoyed sex, I would think he actually does not love me. the old think, of the will problems, and the back is not up gradually also enjoy it?
he may have a lack of the husband, because men too obvious utilitarian, are subject to change sides. But he was not a very good partner to do? You Divorce He married and had a day to day.
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20, 21 men and 25 women, with mutual understanding of three months, I feel like men and women, for women Fortunately, women also good impression of him, but no calls feeling. groom in rural areas, the economic situation is not very good, no room. Women have room in the county, the economy better than the groom, who looks good, but work is not a good man. men and women high school degree. I do not know why the female and male in always with no sense of security, is not it a little female inferiority. woman friend said that women too poor groom, so no sense of security, women feel like not. now only two to impress in March, with very silent, However, the female is very affectionate man, not ML. Women do not speak, men seldom say it feels more men than women said that a long time women did not want to say. men not active before, the men and women want to get married, I do not know He is not to get married and get married. is not the woman promised to be his girlfriend too early, and he do not care? say there is lots to talk together in love, is not a split signal? do not know if they work together or give up?
the cultural differences that you impress the situation now. points regardless, do not have to deliberately think about it, go with the flow, if more and more impress, it would automatically give up Well, now first, and so, to see that not possible to heat up.
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21, sister Hello, consult, and now is really unable to go. that nothing makes sense, for fear that one day he could not carry out. from the business last year, all me, he in the field, very cold, but asked business, home and children. now do not back his side, came back to go forward is not what happened, do not speak out. He is my six , education than I am, I was very exclusive, see the trouble he was not, I think he was all, and my heart cool, the total can not forget him unkind. He said a word, how for me, I will you how that I was destined to be the second marriage. He was anxious to, and others, that time I send text messages to call him, he seems bored, and said nothing to the old text messages sent Han. He never called me, he may not think of the children in my belly is his, and always give me that so and so's wife to be concerned about the people, he said that those who either do not have children, or do nothing is a housewife. Since I do not how to give him after the phone calls, text messages are not issued on November 05 his daughter was born, share of pain I will never forget, in the hospital for 3 days to nights, I suddenly high fever of 39 degrees and more, he has been lying there without them, To this end my mother a bit unhappy, and he and my mother had a falling out, dressed to go, and said, go back, I brought my own children for some time, when he returned to work in Changchun, low wages, he came back to me and the children every day is very bad attitude, never buy things for children, vegetables are vegetables, and always zucchini.
He gas to see my mom do not give children, gas I do not go out to work. On one occasion he said: I've never bought clothes, he said, . a child when I go out to work a half years old,UGG shoes, my mother look at children, the elderly in poor health. last year my own business, a pharmaceutical factory in his field work, I was also doing drugs business. just started to design packaging, some of the problems to call him, he actually said, work over there to die, come back, all the workers in the factory doing the work. and he knows it is nothing to do off-season, but he will always find something to do for himself, but these things never end result.
Canton, always make life difficult for my mind, hate such a man, do not want to look at him, and he did not want to stay for a minute! there are times he said, stay. nice to me. want to leave, I do not know how to take that step, but I do not know what will happen later on in life! hope you can give me some advice, is really unable to go, do not know how life go on.
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Sunday, December 19, 2010

18 Yau character sketches

 Shing-Tung Yau Huazhong heard last year in the talks, impressed.
Very surprised at the cutting-edge work in such a mathematician could be so much welcome (of course, he is Shing-Tung Yau), which is the most crowded I've ever heard lectures. lecture in China Branch of the stadium, almost can not begun to spill came from every entrance.
after I am relying on admission, at the entrance was almost pushed into the back of people's , but unfortunately people have been pushed in front of a pile of dense human flesh, in the not too forward. I went in is almost squeezed the breathing difficulties, although only a few degrees the temperature just a few minutes I was drenched in sweat.
Qiu Master playing with a frenzy of applause. I think this frenzy is far from not only from his academic achievements (although everyone knows where he is the first Chinese winner of Fields Medal, but what he has done is too difficult), but also from his personal charisma and his recent years of outstanding contributions to Chinese mathematics do.
Yau is the most concerned about the academic development of the Chinese in China, one of the scientists, and another master Yang different mound critical point of the basic stand of China towards today's current development of academic and mathematics. When Yang said that the average undergraduate Tsinghua stronger than Harvard's, when some of Professor Qiu said that China may not like to write a paper for university graduates of Harvard; When Yang said that China was very successful run by the University, the mound was repeatedly denounced corruption in the Chinese academic circles and university management system rigidity.
Yau started his speech, entitled His main talk was how to become useful: students how they should do and how should educators do. Hakka accent as thick contents of his lectures have been drawn up in advance at the same time in his speech on the big screen projector.
mound seems seems to be a very romantic person, and his speech is full of serious and pragmatic (this may be that many mathematicians and scientists in a class of common personality traits. Samuel Chao Chung Ting proudly that he had no friends, make friends outside of work is a waste of time ). He said many people say he is a genius, but he is sure about this world there is no genius, He is very specific and rigorous emphasis on having peace of mind.
about today's China in mathematics from the University when he, although not what the angry tone, but the words are very strict. He did not directly say that an all Chinese universities satisfactory academic environment (reminiscent of the former while in a hospital bed, said to Wen Qian, he said that the Chinese do not have University), many people do the math fact to fame and fortune, by the Higher University and the National Academy of too much emphasis on the sky. professor or fellow at the same time receiving a lot of salary in a number of universities to recruit graduate students over, set the level of expense. prestigious large scale introduction of foreign professors and part-time, full-time introduction of false reports, to do violation of the rules of foreign universities do, this false success is not feasible. universities to gain undeserved reputation and financial objectives for the Office of the school, not taking into account the lofty goals of academic research, often boasted some of the most common outcome, and assess these results second class is often a handful of scholars. senior leadership has been misled by these scholars, then, a large number of allocated funds, in the end are wasted in non-academic activities. > What is surprising is actually a very good Chinese mound foundation. the whole lecture he quoted the old saying many times, and finally it is written in pairs to make their own statement: Although the wing by the reward, I did not do as well. have almost creation of infidelity, almost natural interest in music, though poor tactics, the text of its Hing almost. But most people can understand.
lot of people put the hill on the attitude of Chinese mathematics directly attributed to him and the Peking University professor, his students is just the entanglement field, mound without naming scolded his name is second-rate math home, but also engage in academic corruption. But I have asked North Field class heard, he said, just look Tian who is also a very sub. I think the attitude of Confucius is not fundamentally against the individual, but against China's entire academic culture. As for his personal Wada what seems to be not important in the end. Mathematics can only hope that China will get better day by day, talented young people are not second-class old people and institutional constraints. Sun Yat-sen in the last year, the young mathematician Zhu peaceful living in America, a chair professor at Tsinghua University, proved that the mathematical seven Cao Poincare Conjecture, one of the major suspect, is a mound of work by the direct inspiration and pointing his hand. Xi Ping Qiu called by the Tsinghua University Peking University is the academic authority of the outstanding talent suppressed for many years.
to aware of the young Chinese in Hong Kong when Yau was almost destroyed by the rigid structure and dogma, but, fortunately mentor students identify what Chen Province is the only mound almost saved his, and perhaps most of today's Yau valuable experience and young talent vulnerable. His hope is very simple, that is to remove institutional barriers to allow young talent into full play, so that China become a world class mathematics. as simple as a desire can be met if the criticism, I think it is really academic in China today sad.
Attachment: Yau speech text:
students today want to tell you about my thirty years of scholarship and experience of students.
after I graduated from university, to follow the contemporary geometric Berkeley master Mr. Chen Xingshen, also under the tutelage of the founder of modern times Morrey professor of differential experience the most profound is the attitude of their scholarship.
after school I've taught at Princeton Institute of Advanced Studies, New York, Stony Brook Campus, Stanford University, California, San Diego and Harvard University, traces the world over three decades, almost all of the master mathematics and theoretical physics are collected from a part of the master. I hope this experience will be the supply of young academic reference.
I teach graduate and doctoral students have been more than fifty, many of whom have become accomplished scholars, most unfortunate but they are very hard when I finished college, but because of the fame and fortune after the error, but eventually Students can not become useful.
those experiences with China over the past decade flamboyant style of study are closely related, hope today's speech to correct this view.
whether an individual, school or institute, must have a high wish. We certainly need something, not only to feed themselves and their families, also need for social services, but as an intelligent modern man, as a visionary academic leader, we must consider the whole environment of the basic problems.
basic issues in considering, we may seek the secrets of nature, may seek the basic principles of engineering, economics, society may seek the common law. and more mathematicians and writers can make their minds to seek or environment in the United States.
Qian said As the tree grew in the forest by the impact of the surrounding environment. the history of a great scientist had not appeared in the background without culture, can create a great example of the invention. a successful scholar needs to absorb the results of accumulated history, and learn from and resonate with contemporary scholars.
Life is short, whether one is more intelligent, more talented, they can not ignore thousands of years the joint efforts of the great scholars, the results obtained, which is human understanding of nature, to understand life, to understand the experience accumulated relationships, not what can be accomplished overnight.
these experiences through various channels and in the writings of contemporary scholars manifested in behavior, scholars from different cultural backgrounds in an ancestor of the culture, In an interview with peer exchanges have different reactions. has a profound cultural background, there is relatively easy to learn minded scholars a wide range of knowledge in an environment where freedom of thought, this knowledge will soon sprout and become a tool for innovation and capacity.
learned ancient Greek in Egypt, the Babylonian civilization, the development of individual scholars but also the will of thinking as far as possible, so gave birth to two thousand years of Western civilization, philosophy and science, they are one or two hundred years focused on a group of academics, chat on the way, truth for the United States, was a systematic accumulation of knowledge sorted out, their spirit and their impact on the methods used by the scientific development since the Renaissance until today.
in the same period, China Spring and Autumn Period contending, due to the war, west, south, east antipodes of the results, Shang and Zhou culture and cultural integration all over the place, and scholars by the impact of various cultures and expand capacity of the Chinese nation with original peak.
the past two years the impact of the Chinese nation by foreign ancient as the former can be said not to. and this twenty years stable development of the national economy of our nation can finally settle down, we began to have confidence in young people of the motherland also began to think outside the livelihood of some of the important problems in the hope at this time, the Chinese and Western culture, can be naturally integrated, and instead issue a Perfect,, and beauty of the culture
Sima Qian autobiography: dare to Yan. will be more smooth. Back when the beginning of quantum mechanics, can not help but lament how many heroic moment. Throughout the development of technology today, just to find a good direction,
under the influence of cultivation in a good atmosphere, everyone can become hero .
university asked it must have noble sentiments, the following five most important:
one, seeking immortality of the industry:
Zuo Zhuan , followed by a meritorious service, followed by a Li-yen, although eventually becoming waste, what is called immortality.
Pi only by his body. II to the often choosing the period, if the article is not the infinite. is the ancient authors, be subjected to calligraphy, see Italy in Pianji, not in the good history of speech, speeding does not care trend, and fame autobiography in the post.
Historical Records the Master.
Second, continuity of the mission:
set out below.
Records San Sidley does not contain, destroy family hero, Yin doctor of business, fall ancestors said, Zuimotaiyan.
great masterpiece, such as the West Euclid and Newton are the continuity of the work.
Third, there is seen , but gorgeous, and wish to show all people, pass all future generations.
Confucius: Confucius Zhiyan their use, said the world without the smell of not hh Yan.
Sima Qian, stagnation, not pass
the road also, so the state back, thinking to who. hh honest servant has a book, possession of the mountains, mass of the people, mostly through Yap.
A Dream : every word seems are all blood, hard years of unusual.
Cao: Full of ridiculous statement, a bitter tears.
four, due to strong curiosity, hope that by observing, reasoning, to understand nature of the structure, looking for the essence of the universe. great scientists have this curiosity, the curiosity of Einstein said that he is more keen than some others, only to do better. relativity and quantum mechanics is that human curiosity generated. technological innovation and also with curiosity about, for example, the invention of airplanes, space exploration and so on. mathematical exploration of many areas is also based on curiosity caused strong mathematicians.
five, scientists and writers In order to find a beautiful structure, may be spending a lifetime of effort. modern unified field theory, some of the crystal structure, number theory or geometry these elegant proposition, are hotly study and pursuit of pure research is the main driver of this . Riemannian geometry is an example of the founding.
scholars does not seem to want to start learning university asked, often by entering the following two points as the primer channel big learning:
A, to the state and society needs, such as invention of the telephone can serve mankind, World War II radar and various methods of communication because of the military's needs are greatly improved. U.S. Wiener, Von Neumann, the United Kingdom at the time the work of a Turing Application of the twentieth century scientific basis, is a good example.
B, many scholars as the main driving force behind the pursuit of honor, the Nobel Prize does make a lot of young scientists struggling to do scientific research. This honor is not necessarily a single is a personal honor, the glory of the nation can. Li Yang winning the year, the national excitement, of the two generations.
generally speaking a very simple few scholars to study the driving force is only one, often for many reasons and background make them grow. but immortal masterpieces, there is bound to include the first considerations of the fifth point to complete, the Turing and Wiener and other masters in pure science has in-depth study in the application of science to make a monumental work. It is easy to see
to fame and fortune, power as the main driving force behind the study, when the purpose of Tat to the rear, very difficult to continue. Unfortunately, most Chinese scholars as a target.
Learning in the direction determined by the impact we get the influence of mentors, the choose the good and the stubbornness of, before they can be National Cheng Kung University.
In fact, the social culture have a profound effect on us. Three hundred years ago, China literati look down on the state of foreign barbarians, that they do not read the books of sages, the entire nation and not realistic to observe the pride of others strengths. until the cession of the territory after the defeat began to reflect on the overall impact of the Westernization of the May Fourth Movement. This is the great period of change , grew up in this era is hard not to with wave-by scholars, followed the general direction to go. In the field of scientific research today, we can see that scientists from different cultural backgrounds have different ways of temperament and scholarship.
For example, the northeast United States, many scholars still have a strong Puritan style, like the Chinese say Juanjie scholar. once Confucius Chan, a return with it a sigh: Feiranchengzhang hh scholars cautious cautious; while the United States to the achievement of this century is eclectic, collective wisdom. This is since ancient times, the success of a country to promote the learning of the most important factor, Athens, Greece, Germany, Park, France, Paris, London, England, the Soviet Union Moscow, Chang'an in ancient China, Luoyang, have gathered a lot of talent. Confucius For Lu, to Sima Qian is still seen when the
in school, often to see the original full professors in the development of the invention, repeated attempts were unsuccessful, and finally the joy of success he will make students feel excited, and I want to point their own similar experiences. sometimes see to hold different views on the two professors criticize each other doctrine of the shortcomings of students infected by this atmosphere, understanding the importance of truth, understanding and create the fun.
we can see a group of young students and professors unscrupulous to go through the way their predecessors did not. When a group of enthusiastic, capable people are in when doing research, most people will be infected and to follow to make their fortune.
addition to contacts with local scholars, we can also read ancient and distant with people pledge allegiance, progress.
Beginners always difficult, even if the learned men who versa:
Tao: Good reading, without understanding, for every knowing, we are pleased to forget the food.
This is important: Even if the difficulties also self-improvement, reading can readily forgets that a big success. For love of learning will naturally be keen to specific achievements.
before Qu Yuan, Sima Qian, Li Yu, who's works are highly emotional, said Wang Guowei They work out of Santa Claus, to book into the blood, golden future, their work is still moving. When the Einstein theory of relativity was founded, the enthusiastic to find the most natural structure of the gravitational field. Watson in his autobiography Lane said that he and Crick structure of DNA when looking into madness, and finally complete the epoch-making contributions. It is noteworthy that Einstein gravity places needed for the geometry, Watson of the required X-ray refraction theory are not experts are by an enthusiasm, and exploration success.
Qu Yuan's works are cited to describe his post-Honesty: more than the heart is also good fortune, though its still unknown regret nine dead.
when we find love direction, never give up.
people's livelihood and be happy fortune, Yudu good repair that often, although my body still unknown variable solution Xi, How I can be the heart of the Correctional Services.
I recall that to solve a very important issue, dreaming, like Cifu said:
Huizong: days away to far, the great lakes to the National Palace where he knows, how can one consider, in addition to dream and sometimes have to go.
pumping thinking: but Xi Ying Road, endless, soul and nine passed away overnight.
when strong feelings, even if the start of superficial understanding, through constant exposure to the religion, the truth will gradually become clear. But the feeling rich, there must be teachers and friends incentives.
teachers are those who have a teaching Tuition FAQ.
three rows, must be my teacher.
to learn with it, enjoying themselves.
through learning, or and learn from teachers and friends, or commune with the ancients, only a broad view, will give up the idea of some of the previous trivial, important to find the direction of learning.
Yan: withered Bishu west last night, the tower alone, Wang Jin Wandering Road.
can give up important research, try to think about their own direction, the need for practical basis, a good cultural education, temperament, and not afraid to laugh at others.
She Jiang: Gou Xi Yu true heart of their side, Although the remote of any injuries.
Han Yu A. Sampson to begin the book
book of non-Han can not view the three generations, non-sage can not bear to hold, if forgotten, the line if the left, if the thinking by his majestic, bewildered almost certain of its fans. when it take on the heart note in hand, but Chen made the business go, Jiajia by his hard indeed! their view on others, I do not know their Feixiao of a non-laugh. In the case of those who have, still do not change . and ancient books of knowledge are false, and although those who are not to Yan, Visible then carry white and black points, and service to it, is also something to Xu. When the heart of their take on the note in hand, then to Mimi carry on. The view of the people, laughed at the thought that joy, goodwill is that You, who say its still one of the deposit also. In the case of those who have, and then ho by his Allied carry on. I fear the complex has also , and from the welcome, fair to the police it. its all alcohol has, and then wantonly Yan. Although not without raising too. line of almost benevolence of the passers-by, tour the almost lost its way, no never its source, the end times daily and have carry on!
to find their own way of learning, will need to maintain a strong curiosity to keep asking questions. China's most famous ancient questions of the article is: < br> Yuan Tian Wen
old thing then, who preach it, not shape up and down, how the sun and the moon An examination of the case of hh, Liexing Ann Chen?
but after reading the books of sages and scholars in China, not asking words and deeds of saints and images of the heavens and the earth.
decision even if the general direction of scholarship, in the middle can not be without a lot of difficult places, this time with the teacher, More should learn from the teachers and friends to ask:
ask well, such as call-bell, and asked who the big Ming Tai, who then asked the little small-ming.
the above two different questions, one is thinking ; ask for br> A good scholar, need to constantly observe the phenomena of nature, come from human experience accumulated in the search for days with the law, to be verified, induction and deduction, endless to success university asked, the whole truth and beauty the most objective of the mentor process.
both a great writer or a great scientist who, are inseparable from the hard-working stage of learning.
Qu Yuan: Lu Manman its repair Xi, Wu Jiang search up and down. < br> Yong: belt she does not regret becoming wide-end, to eliminate the Iraqi people were emaciated.
of hard study and be durable, and easy, very sensitive to the Chinese primary school children when school is often best to have exhausted the university.
to learn to avoid for fear of another basic training soon, and the length of a good talk about others to cover up their weaknesses.
school and in pain thinking, you may find that previously completely wrong direction to go, or the problem has to do to others to complete. At this time, how to customize Office, just like the expedition, or defeat, or ambush, is a test of our training time.
on Guan Qian: its for the government but also, good for evil and for the blessing, but for the power failure transfer. your weight, carefully weighed. Heng Ji less public real anger, South hit Cai, Guan thus attacked Chu, Select package Mao would not join the tribute to Zhou Qi hh is owned by the nobility.
experience from the failure to find a successful way, is the only way to do research. because when you try a variety of ways, often more than the failure of success less time, but we do very little study is a waste of the way through, and sometimes people do research to pre-empt, the article from the other side get inspired to do a more meaningful articles, or you can see these studies are not worth doing. dilemma is not only related to experience, also about the temperament of scholars.
on temperament, we look at:
Pi although the degree of the rhythm with the inspection,
The bleed air is incomplete, Zhuo Qiao well-established, although the father and brother,
children can not be moved.
the surface, the bigger and learning will need a genius to be successful. actually Not really:
feelings, My teacher has Fangzi Chun, in the East China Sea. is someone to deliver food from it to Penglai Hill. stay Ya said: teeth heart sad, extended neck around, but smell the sea Mi? # 093;, forest subterranean underworld, birds wailing, sky and sighed and said: temperament can be seen also can develop in the absorption of diversity of culture, under the influence in an elegant environment, temperament, there may be mutations. just like in the long-term thinking, we may have the same sudden inspiration.
temperament training is best started from childhood. Sima Qian's article air swallowing river, it is because his father let him since childhood, He went to study classical Qilu land and studying with Dong, Tai Shi Gong's early so there is a reason.
scholars face a big problem, often the test of self-confidence, Mencius said: righteousness
Sao
the grass where the old Xi, Xiao Ai do this straight also.
ye therefore he has his fortune, Mo also victims of good repair.
Pi
is impressed by the hungry poor and lowly , wealth will flow in the comfort and pleasure.
some scholars to work very early, but the lack of appreciation and self-pity, and finally can not continue.
a very famous example is the Han Jia Yi:
Wang Bo < br> Qu Jia Yi in Changsha, non-no Lord, not at the time clearly lack.
reviews
king Shi Zuo, hh can not be non-Han Wen of students, students of Han Wen also can not be used.
subsequently cry from the injury, as prematurely extinguished, is also at the poor are poor. but not with one of her husband to seek, you know that the end does not hurt to use also? wonder silently to wait for change, and self-mutilation to this. Wherein! Jia Sheng Zhi Da and the amount of less, it is also more than the lack of knowledge.
was ignorance, and pretend to host; have extraordinary talent school, actually timid, or self-injury is not met, this is not caught their cultural training, the mind is not so wide. < br> in days as a teacher: rationale for Tomorrow, through good fortune.
human-Teacher: You can in conscience, act properly.
my students, often simply to learn a great achievement. Conversely, there other students, beginner fashion is hard, after the home visit by the great praise, since that knowledge giants first, quick success, so the error again and again, even with the wrong elected Fellows of the article, the long run, I am afraid that the scientific community will face China at the scandal.
academic years in China is exaggerated by the high winds of the University and the National Academy of excessive attention to the sky. professor or fellow at the same time receiving a lot of salary in a number of universities to recruit graduate students over, set the level of expense. elite and a large number of the introduction of part-time foreign professors, full-time introduction of false reports, to do things that violate the rules of foreign universities, this false success are not desirable.
Mencius: I King and the provision of land, filling the treasuries. Yoshiomi today are the so-called ancient The so-called traitor also.
universities to gain funding for the Office of the school in name and objective, not taking into account the lofty goals of academic research, often boasted some of the most common outcome, and assess these outcomes often are a handful of second class of scholars. senior leadership has been misled by these scholars, then, a large number of allocated funds, in the end are wasted in non-academic activities.
Finally, only a few words as a gift:
line almost the way of fame and fortune, enter into the Gongqing of door, although wing by the reward, I do not plan too.
creation of Chen was almost, almost natural interest in music, though poor tactics, the text of its Hing almost.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Forest tree (to)

 Part
by analogy we have to talk about Buddhism, because Buddhism is not some form. It is the square or round? You Shuibu Lai. The only way is through the metaphor to illustrate
mm Ajahn Chah
tramp
when we lost the true home when no goal is like a bum, living in the streets. side walk, there nodding, a back off their feet and have children Wandering the other party. In real home before we go back, however, will feel uncomfortable, just as a background of travelers far from home. Only when he got home again, can be truly comfortable.
in the world we find not really a quiet place, which is the world in the Realms. to the contemplation of your own heart instead of out of the pursuit of it! peace is found in your heart.
when we played a great recollection of the Buddha, he said is so real, we feel how much he respected ah! when we see the truth of things, even if we never really had to practice Buddhism, but also still see him teach the law. However, even if we have a Buddhist knowledge, and have to learn and practice Buddhism, still did not see the truth, then we are still the same as the homeless, homeless.
blind
kept in the body and mind could argue, ; line will only lead us into the dense bushes and forest, he could not see, how can we go with a safe place? the same token, our hearts are pretentious pain: looking for peace when the artificial difficulties. We really want to relieve suffering and difficulties, but on the contrary, we go to these pretentious, and only complain about it. We will reason by committing evil because of our appearance Truth and the Write a detailed description of how the patient medication instructions, but if the patient is reading the instructions on the bottle, regardless of time back on the hundreds, will be dying in here, never get drug treatment. before his death , will grudge to complain about incompetent doctors, and those drugs do not cure him. he thought the doctor was a quack, or that the drugs have no role, knowing he just spend time checking the bottle and read the instructions on the bottle, but Reminders do not listen to the medication. Anyway, if the patient listened to the doctors advised Well, according to prescription medication on time, he will be able to recover.
doctors prescribe in order to remove the physical disease; Buddha Education law is a prescription treatment of mental illness, so that the heart back to the natural state of health. Therefore, the Buddha can be called a doctor treating mental illness, and without exception each of us has a mental illness. When you look at to these diseases, could not reasonably rely on as to seek the Dharma, like giving medicine to treat the disease generally do you read?
kids playing
Mind repeatedly thinking we will be followed will know, the heart is just the heart, not anything else. We will see, the heart is the heart, this is it in the Realms. If we clearly see this point clearly, we will not go to persistent thoughts and feelings, as long as constantly telling myself: thoughts and feelings are useless.
just beginning to be a love to play but it will interfere with our children so badly disturbed, so we chastise him, but after we have come to understand the lively nature of a child So we will let him play. We put down our troubles will disappear. Why worry disappear? Because, now we have accepted the child's nature, perception has changed, and has accepted the real thing face. We put down, and then the heart will become more peaceful. Now, we have the right view.
Cobra
mental activities can be fatal as the Cobra. If we do not disturb a cobra, it will naturally take it; even if it is very toxic, we will not affected by it; if we did not come near it or catch it, it will not bite us. Cobra according to its nature will action, and it is so! If you're smart, do not tease it. Similarly, let the bad and the good comes naturally mm according to its nature and let it go let go of likes and dislikes, as you not to disturb the Cobras.
a wise man, will be treated in this manner raised in his mind all the emotions. When the good feelings in the mind from time to time, it naturally good, and to understand It's authentic; Similarly, we let evil naturally evil, it comes naturally. Do not persistent, because we do not want anything! We do not evil, nor good; we should not burden and ease, and even not to do pleasure and pain. When our desires to cease, the peace will be firmly built up.

For coconut shell is dyed, but first we must have a desire to begin to practice Suppose you go to the market to buy a coconut, carrying them back, the way someone asked you: Shell also eat it? How do you answer this question?
is by the desire to play our repair, and if we do not desire, we will not go to practice. you know?! such thinking can produce wisdom. For example: those coconut, you have to even eat out with the shell? Of course not! So why coconut shell? because of the use of coconut shell is wrapped in coconut to eat out after the shell and then thrown away, no problem.
The same is true of our practice. We do not eat shell, but now is not lost when the shell. We put them in the collection together, as we rely on the same desire to practice, practice is the case. If people insist we do not even coconut Shell also eat, that is their business, and we have nothing to do, as long as we know what they are doing enough.
cooking
we need to train our body and foul mouth from evil, and this is merit. Some people think all day and night to have merit to recite the Pali verses, but in fact, as long as the body of your mouth clean fight flawless, is a merit. This is not obscure, as in cooking food, we put a little bit of this, put a little bit of that, until just right, delicious so far. Once the deployment of the delicious food, you do not add any thing, because the right sauce have been added. the same reason, to determine the line of our body and speech is not missing, so that can give us a , someone shouted insults rude to you, an instant, you hear the sound of this abuse, the normal heart at once changed, you feel uncomfortable, I feel very angry and humiliated, so you want revenge.
A few days later, another person to visit your home and tell you: will go to care about what he said. . In the past when you do not know that that person is normal, so you will hate him, but also cause you pain. Once the truth came out, overtaken by events: When you understand this point, you feel very comfortable, because you have first-hand experience. know the future, you will be able to put down. If you do not understand the truth, it will go to perseverance. When you think the person who insulted you is normal , you may kill him, but when you find out the truth mm his mental disorders, you will feel more comfortable. This is the understanding of the truth.
see the law a person had a similar experience. greed, anger, crazy disappeared, disappeared the same way. When we can not know that these three drugs, we will think: , with the thought that a madman is of sound mind is the same. Only when we finally know his mental disorders, we were able to let go of anxiety. No one can tell you this, realize that only careful person, it can be extinction and discard attachment.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

February 2 Experts on the dangers of passive smoking on children

 Interview Topic: Avoid exposure to secondhand smoke
children from interviews with guests: Capital University of Medical Treatment of Lung Cancer Center Director, Professor Zhi Xiuyi
Tobacco Control Office of the Chinese Center for Disease Control Professor Jiang Yuan, deputy director of interview text
Record: < br> The left is Professor Jiang Yuan, the right is Professor Zhi Xiuyi
Moderator: users Hello everyone, Welcome to the Sohu chat room guests.
the subject we are talking about today is about the dangers of passive smoking for children, why choose such a theme? because the annual February 4 is World Cancer Day, World Cancer Day theme this year is to get young people away from the dangers of tobacco, 31 May each year is World No Tobacco Day, two days are very close, especially the day after tomorrow is World Cancer Day.
we all know the dangers of tobacco for many aspects of the public, and 2008 was the year of Beijing Olympics, China,bailey UGG boots, especially Beijing will do a lot of things in tobacco control, Sohu Health today invited Professor Zhi Xiuyi, Capital Medical University and the Chinese Center for Disease Control and Prevention Tobacco Control Office, deputy director Professor Jiang Yuan, a guest expert interview room to talk about tobacco in the end users and which endanger the public? second-hand smoke, especially for young people harm in what areas? our country in the tobacco control what specific actions?
beat the first of the two professors say hello.
Jiang Yuan: netizens, Hello everybody!
Zhi Xiuyi: Members friends, Hello everybody, I am pleased to World Cancer Day is approaching, we can talk about with you here in our second-hand smoke hazards to human health, especially for young people harm.
Moderator: many reports Speaking at the present stage of tobacco consumption in China, looks are very large numbers, first Professor Jiang briefly explain the situation at the present stage of smoking.
Jiang Yuan: China has conducted three large-scale epidemics survey was 84, 96, 2002, in fact, with the most recent data for 2002, compared with 96 years of data, the overall population is declining smoking rates, but the smoking rate of young people and women on the rise We observed that in many cities, especially in some white-collar female smoking rates are rising. With the rise in smoking rates, leading to respiratory disease, cardiovascular disease, lung diseases, especially lung cancer in recent years are increased substantially.
Zhi Xiuyi: tobacco consumption is not just China, in the context of global growth. global deaths due to smoking every year nearly five million, China is now the number of deaths from smoking one million per year, if the current trends of tobacco consumption and tobacco control measures taken by the current efforts, the World Health Organization estimates that by 2030 the global annual number of deaths due to smoking will reach 1000-15000000, China will double by 2025, From now die each year from tobacco-related diseases rose to two million people a million people, of course, including many diseases, respiratory diseases, cardiovascular diseases, digestive diseases, etc..
lung cancer as a doctor I am more concerned about smoking on lung cancer hazards of passive smoking with lung cancer. now one from Japan, the relevant research on the health effects of passive smoking, particularly on the relationship between passive smoking and lung cancer prospective study of passive smoking on the health hazards Yes Yes Research milestone. Japanese researchers looked at 29 areas in Japan do not smoke near the thousands of deaths of married women, observed that the husband does not smoke lung cancer mortality rate for women 8.7 per thousand, if the husband every day Smoking 10m19 support, women's mortality rate 14 per thousand, if the husband is 20 cigarettes a day the death rate for women over 18 parts per million. At present our country on the relationship between lung cancer and smoking, smoking in China from 2006 and Health Report which can be concluded that nearly 80% m87% of lung cancer deaths are related to tobacco, including second-hand smoke is related to passive smoking.
Jiang Yuan: increase in female smoking rate in China is not only just, in fact, in many countries is such a case, the male began to rise in the number of smokers, followed by women increased. Now many women do for the promotion of smoking advertising, publicity as an independent woman like a man, we should like men smoking,Discount UGG boots, smoking on behalf of free and open , liberation and so on. our country with the reform and opening up, lifestyle changes, many girls feel that I am independent I am open.
the actual increase in youth smoking rates do not bare is why this year's World Cancer Select young people away from tobacco at it? great because the world youth smoking rates are on the rise, many of which are caused by tobacco company promotional strategies, and their advertising, such as F1 is a Formula One great object through advertising to attract young people. such as the United States has a tobacco brand called Camel, a cartoon image was specifically called camel bridge, made a 18-month advertising on young people's market share in the U.S. from 1% to nearly 20% .
Moderator: tobacco for women, children, the impact is not will be even greater?
Jiang Yuan: The earlier smoking on the body the more you smoke the greater the harm, in addition to their growth and development of young people among women there is birth, breast-feeding function. In Canada there is an example of a model on the first two days when the Society of smoking, when she just learned how to smoke shortly after her mother died of lung cancer because of smoking. She learned the process encountered some problems, I feel very lonely, contracted smoking. was always smoking, and later gave birth to twins, one born less than a week to die, have a child aged less than congenital heart attack and died. Compared with men, women are more their specialty, affect the fetus.
Zhi Xiuyi: Smoking not only to the women themselves bring about the physiological effects of maternal smoking can affect children for awareness of tobacco, and even parents are smoking, first time the child's age will be the acceptance of tobacco has a very low .07 in a number of professors, the current average teenager smoking first cigarette is 11 years of age.
Why did you choose this topic to create smoke-free environment for children, it is very important. In our office, public places, kindergartens, restaurants, children affected the most, 82% of passive smoking at home, children affected be the first.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Domestic and foreign experts to teach you how to calcium

 Popular Science by the Chinese Medical Association organized by the Department, Sohu.com Health Channel, Wyeth Pharmaceuticals, the Department of Health and co-medication Health Interview mm 00 held in Beijing.
Moderator: users Hello everyone, Welcome to the Sohu health interview room. calcium, many people now a topic of concern, but we also have to admit that some behavior is not of calcium scientific, reasonable and calcium for the problem of people, many of which are little understood. Therefore, today we have invited several well-known domestic and foreign experts, to answer the users are various questions about calcium. First, let us introduce on-site guests They are of Endocrinology, Beijing Union Medical College Hospital Chief Physician Professor Meng Xunwu, China Dr. Zhou Jianlie Food and Nutrition Board of Governors, President of the United States Osteoporosis Foundation, Dr. Bess Dawson-Hughes, Dr. Dawson-Hughes for the translation of the Second Affiliated Hospital orthopedic Dr. Ding Yue, Chinese Medical Association Department of horsepower science researchers, welcome ladies and gentlemen! experts have for the problem of calcium more in-depth research in this area if you have questions, please to the experts, the online questions. Now we started the interview.
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interview, vice president of Chinese Medical Qi Guoming
speech at the seminar which will bring the issue of calcium deficiency?
Moderator: Many people now are all very concerned about calcium, calcium is very important that, if the body of calcium deficiency, then what impact on health?
Zhoujian Lie: calcium deficiency, then of course there are many adverse effects, mainly for the teeth and bones. Now a lot of Chinese residents calcium intake is less, on average only 388.8 mg of calcium intake, which is the 2002 China National Nutrition and Health Survey. Chinese Nutrition Society developed the recommended intake of calcium should be 800m1000 mg adults, pregnant women, in the words of the late is 1000m1200 mg and 388.8 mg of the current recommended intake of less than half, so it should be calcium.
Moderator: How calcium effects on health, please explain in detail Professor Meng.
Xun Meng Wu: Calcium is the body's major bones and teeth, calcium is very important not only for health, but also for people's metabolism, regulate muscle function, and so have a very important role. Now people are very concerned about the relationship between bone health and calcium. calcium a very important health factors, we have to correct the positioning of calcium. We Chinese people's eating habits, which in our diet is not enough calcium, our large-scale national survey of calcium doses of 1952, when the National Ca The dose is 400 mg a day or so, over the decade to 2002, he made a survey, had also a lot of publicity of calcium, is not we taken seriously? survey results were known calcium diet which is almost like the original, no significant increase, it caught us by surprise. and there are many factors, calcium-rich foods are among the most important dairy products, dairy products, many of which the calcium content, which a lot of cheese, milk, milk powder, which also a lot. But there are considerable number of people in China lactose intolerance, which means that after eating this milk are not well absorbed, stomach swelling, discomfort, diarrhea, a diarrhea, people think I do not eat the still make me crash out on the , and do not like do not eat.
It is one thing, some of it is the role of vitamin D, because people are not paid much attention, do not know that vitamin D effect. calcium absorption with vitamin D is closely related to vitamin D90% according to rely on the sun, through the skin and their synthesis of vitamin D, which really get the food accounted for 10% of vitamin D, so adequate lighting is very important. elderly with young people receive the same time, the same light intensity, the same surface exposure, because the big old age, skin synthesis of vitamin D, poor, and only one-third of young people. So the light is very important, today we also talked about the afternoon forum, to have 20 per day minutes of illumination. If you are very busy in the morning sun does not go up, and at night the sun has gone, how do? does not matter, you can use the weekend supplement, added to a daily average of 20 minutes, skin synthesis of vitamin D can In fat, liver storage, after storage in accordance with the needs of every day which slowly release into the blood, so this is a remedy. the elderly should be a long time illumination, but also should pay attention to calcium. these links, not to say single calcium, vitamin D synthesis of vitamin D should pay attention to the importance of their own, as it gives physiological. If this situation is not enough calcium, vitamin D we add agents, calcium preparation of these, so meet the needs of the body. If enough calcium with vitamin D, even if the old osteoporosis is inevitable, that there will be a lesser degree. calcium, vitamin D sufficient, the bones of the bone bank kept a very full, like a lot of bank deposits, and the old slowly after the payment, young deposits less, old constraints of the course.
Zhoujian Lie, MD, which will be the performance of calcium the body
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Moderator: You said that if the words of calcium deficiency will affect the person's teeth and bones, specifically manifested in the human body what are the performance of calcium deficiency? how we can know that I am a calcium deficiency.
Zhoujian Lie: for example children, sometimes the words of calcium may reduce the body not high enough, the bones almost compare the past, a rickets, X-shaped legs, or O-shaped legs, this is the performance of calcium deficiency, calcium deficiency can also cause many adverse reactions of children, such as bone will be pain. If the lack of maternal There are a lot of calcium, then other problems,cheap UGG boots, inadequate calcium intake if pregnant, will the foot cramps, can cause gestosis, hypertension, proteinuria, swollen feet, so you need calcium supplements. menopausal women,UGG shoes, calcium, because of the decline of estrogen, so the increase in calcium loss, increased loss of calcium make her osteoporosis, especially postmenopausal women, more likely to cause calcium loss. We can see from the chart to the inside, menopause calcium the bone into the danger zone, the danger zone is osteoporosis, osteoporosis is caused by one of the most serious osteoporotic fracture, many of hip femoral neck fractures, forearm fractures, thoracic and lumbar compression fractures, which is the most common osteoporotic fracture. We are mainly calcium to prevent osteoporotic fractures.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Crazy Christmas to sign up!

 Aries new and interesting parties so that they lie on the most high
favorite form of Aries people like to play new and exciting party, they hate the kind of old-fashioned party, preferably the subject is different every time, today is the pajamas lie, tomorrow is the swimsuit lying, all the best people who participate in different, so as to enable them to meet some new partners.
degree of Aries is very easy to Ren Laifeng crazy, just met his favorite target, chummy best friend to children will fall into place all the new fun things to light, as long as the center of attention on him, will immediately Ren Laifeng.
best lie is the same file Sagittarius constellation Sagittarius fire as like to stir up trouble, preferring to join in the fun encountered if a single spark can start a prairie fire that you have such Aries, simply Dry Wood Fierce Fire, lying there kicking you, and definitely not cold market!
warm style of Taurus party was just your mind playing
favorite lie Taurus people are more personalized form of silence quiet, they do not naturally good at communication, afraid of traveling with strangers, like most small and intimate gathering that, if the surrounding are acquaintances, they will be more relaxed, but if There the presence of a stranger, they will become very conservative.
crazy crazy level up to make people in Taurus, the first condition is to be relaxed atmosphere, if it is installed in the restaurants they will very noble, if it is in the kind of relaxed atmosphere you can eat restaurant, you will see they are very relaxed while eating a joke, this time you only get this constellation mouth feel how cheap.
best lie often file these signs Scorpio are good friends and bitter rivals, who are not good when courteous, cooked just get together after the super love to bicker, attack each other a number of harmless fun, see you bickering it is in fact quite interesting.
Gemini can be a favorite Exposing the mystery of the users to play together
favorite form of lying like gossip, that long, short and likes to show off on their own information, Gemini is very popular for parties to participate in the network will come to play in this lie is half cooked absolutely unfamiliar people , the side of the gossip to others can also glimpse a person's true colors.
crazy level that they may not want to be the focus of the banquet, but his mouth was always moving on, once the bustling atmosphere of the East will begin after the parents of the West family short, because I like gossip Gemini will not miss this moment to exchange information with others.
Cancer file you are absolutely the best unexpected lying, gossip skill they can market shoppers, compared not only to know gossip than you, and even some private things to others that if in charge, and with them the most gossip is fun!
lying Cancer favorite retro style kick kick
favorite form of Cancer is very prone not good at communication, eating and drinking and was afraid to lie outside the play, but if they can evoke memories of the retro kick is lying, such as make-up as their favorite artists, or wearing funny clothes, a popular past times.
crazy Cancer crazy to the extent it must first break through their psychological defenses, and if the presence of a stranger, may need to warm up about him, once he let go, not only are his audience hysterical laughter, you can also listen to to hear the gossip is absolutely normal.
usually the best straight face lying file Pisces Cancer, Pisces stalker if not for not going to lie just kick it! with Pisces pretty good at manufacturing festive atmosphere , and together they play the most suitable Cancer lying.
Leo the spotlight to become the largest audience the purpose of playing
favorite form of lying like you put the focus on himself Leo, is the most suitable costume party, they would will make every effort to dress up to go, so that the audience become the focus of attention, who played like a who, but suggest you not accomplishing the best Jack the Ripper.
crazy levels like the other constellations, as long as there is an audience front of them, Leo has to improvise can be performed if there is a group of viewers, I think he was like a crazy, as long as we play downtown, even to his sword swallower fire-breathing performance can be.
best lie file Gemini Gemini who is good at lip, but if they really want to show I'm afraid it will frighten them, and if the presence of Leo, you just take one a singing, Gemini said Leo performances, with the seamless.
Virgo for energy talk about warm feelings lie lie loved playing
Virgo will play in the form of small parties like the kind of warm, they do not have the kind of Ren Laifeng personality, too exciting gathering will make them afraid of crazy, underwear party will make them embarrassed, So a small gathering of friends, listen to music, eat snacks and talk about the best of minds!
degree they crazy reason, Thailand, rarely, when there will be relaxed, really want to see them go wild, I'm afraid difficult, if it is to see you drunk they had to sneak in a little Weizui, they then begin to more up, I am afraid that many people want to see it in such a situation there!
Best not very good at lying file Cancer Virgo social life, playing in the party, always hiding the side when the wall flower, this time the same shy Virgo Cancer be the best partners, two people can be carrying gossip standing cup, until end of the banquet.
Libra lying longing for high society like playing kick
favorite form of lying like Libra may wish to try the elegant performance of high society dinner party that, at this time could be forced to brand-name possessions out of the body, heart to strive to dress up, of course, also the high society to contact the waltz, be sure not to step foot partner 啦!
crazy when the degree although many would like Ren Laifeng about Libra, but they always required to comply with its image in general dignified lady, this time they will hold back not to laugh, or far-fetched to say the words, If they could not help, would go crazy laughing went to the toilet.
Gemini Gemini are the best lie in the file, and said to the gossip of the things they are responsible,UGG boots clearance, you just listened good, anyway, do not gossip and speak out from your mouth, you just continue to do the communication and shake hands everything is OK the job!
Scorpio exotic mystery lie a little kick like
most popular form of lying kick Scorpio also like fun though, but like the mystery of the Scorpio will be very popular abroad, like the witch party , several people get together of like magic, or some ritual to help spiritual growth.
crazy degree Scorpio not the type to go wild, people, unless they are drunk, and just have a favorite object in the side, Otherwise, they'll pretend to be reserved to hide in a corner observing us, and we can not blame him artificial because it is the Scorpio's mysterious character.
best lying files lying Cancer is a very good kicking their partner, when you say you want to stay in the corner, others let you bench immediately, only caring when they are willing to accompany you to the wall flower, until the date you would like to join the crowd.
Sagittarius vibrant dance favorite play
lying favorite form of lying Sagittarius kick dynamism, the most suitable party Dance the night on display, in which a party dress you will know very many Ku-hyun, graceful dance man, but to remind you when the dance can be Oh, do not use drugs!
crazy degree of Sagittarius there is joy in the place, these words illustrates how Sagittarius will create the atmosphere, they not only Ren Laifeng, they simply were mad, as long as Sagittarius A appears, you want a quiet moment things are not likely.
file Aquarius best lie they always have a lot of new ideas, but never find the courage to perform, but the action and courage of Sagittarius can be used with just such creativity. and Aquarius go to activities, I think you will find a lot of fun.
Capricorn is not easy to relax and play into the prone form of
favorite kick Capricorn lying quite good at dealing with some of the official activities or official party will allow them to move about ass, and family gatherings will always cold atmosphere of confused, perhaps the students will be able to relax a little spirit of their time.
degree of Capricorn little crazy crazy chance They do not know how to release the tension of the nerves,bailey UGG boots, often people mistake them put on airs or indifference, this is big wrong ah! proposed Capricorn at the banquet to learn to relax more facial expressions and say hello.
best they are very good at lying file Cancer care for others, even if the encounter like hiding in the corner of the Capricorn will also concerned about the greeting on the go, this is not easy easy to feel quite warm Capricorn, lying next to participate in kick Cancer often forget to find a partner yo!
Aquarius loved to lie on a dazzling variety of fun playing kick
favorite forms of participation by lying prone on the Aquarius is not playing annoying thing, if we can play something new like pattern, and now Europe's most popular party, the murder of an inference, not only can play a role, but also mental and physical reasoning, like the brain for Aquarius is simply terrific.
degree of Aquarius, the beginning is always crazy pretend to be some apathy, but in and we will become warm and familiar, his Ren Laifeng need other people to stimulate, if someone booing, Aquarius will follow play with, who says his mind does not get along?
Best lie on file Sagittarius Aquarius he is the best playmate, sometimes Aquarius will analities that if this time there is Sagittarius, then in the side of stimulation is not the same. and playing with them can be quite prone to go to enjoy it !
Pisces the most mysterious subject-oriented to attract
favorite lie lie kicked kicked in the form of things like the mystery, kicking the general has no way to lie to meet you, if you are single, then, might find some friends like Zhuangshennonggui together to share the mystery, we eat and drink with the candle going to happen, half mysterious single party, is not great you?
degree of Pisces crazy sitting around the atmosphere is vulnerable to the impact, if we are to enter the atmosphere, he's crazy index will be high, to laugh, to trouble, cry whatever you are, if you talk in most ghost stories will be pretending he was a mystery Oh!
Aries and Pisces are the best lie like file join in the fun, but the total Someone must first launch an attack, otherwise we'll be there deadlocked, then most likely to break the deadlock Aries useful it! chatterbox once opened, Pisces will follow it crazy!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Three-year-old man wrote to Cancer

 Pan's birthday today, I suddenly in the afternoon time, the want to write some text, some text on the Pan.
Pan is a Cancer man, from the first night we met the beginning, I knew this constellation of men , is badly in need of family and emotional stability. but also from that time on, I tried to create a kind of in a harmonious, easy communication range.
I see the astrology book, it says: three-year-old Cancer, slowly begin to turn into a big baby. They like to say it out loud their feelings, like all kinds of fun and creative things, but is definitely very proud of the good things like to hear more. Therefore in order to impress Cancer at this time, it is necessary to accompany them to play, and give them more recognition and more.
frankly, reading this text, I laughed.
breaking a finger count we know days, even six months is also a condition. It has been said, fell in love with a person, with a bloom time, but no other flower, will be open to six months. Therefore, many of the blossoms, and thanks Only I'm still waiting for Cancer fall in love only me, or like my more accurate.
Pan, how do you say? some complex and some simple. He instinctively protect themselves, their own feelings under enclosed in a hard shell. In six months time exchanges, whether dating or text messages, I always take the initiative from the nearby or greetings. impression that once or twice, he even let me have flattered initiative feeling, for the first time in April Fool's Day when he took the initiative to send a funny text message to my phone, so that the building of mobile phone has not deleted; the second time, was his initiative to invite me to dinner, though thank dinner, there was also excited me a pm.
Perhaps I was not fit him, so will others seem to care about some little things not worth mentioning.
maybe, maybe I subconscious, have yet to share his feelings down.
not less get along in this day, I believe that in front of Pan, I have nowhere to hide, happy, angry, get angry, complain, and all emotions I have had, of course, in front of him, even if not happy will not show it, because every time we met, were so short, in a word, an action, he gave the accumulated number of days I miss, instantaneous. so I do not want to say some words finished, Pan has been so far away.
several times at night, think of his performance just the right just right, can hear his heart helpless sigh issued. For Pan I want to come near, they fear approached, he always gives a tired. I disagree, this world too many men, women, come together and gone, this year, spend may not be as the sea, perhaps, Pan think so, would never give me any commitment, or is implied. only by virtue of my perception, to read his eyes, or mind, what can read a bit, depends on my own good luck.
three-year-old today is the birthday of Pan , thirty men, Lengnuanzizhi; not pleased, not to have compassion.
natural growth may slow man, a woman for thirty years to worry about, the men who had just started his real good time. Pan should be just beginning so his best years.
Anyway, I always feel should Cancer Pan and tender. Cancer is a water sign, has all the characteristics of water-related. gentle, careful and Fu toughness, even that emotion is very water-like features, or gurgling or trickling, or loved you, Susan, or flowing, or that great tide. mood changes to one second can be gentle enough, The next moment it may be a cold-head repulsion. Speaking of which, a little nervous, huh, huh.
is often said that the roots of this world easy to get, hard to find friends, met, they should be treasured and should be grateful. Where the fatalism as to explain, to meet Pan, the situation may be robbed of this world.
no matter how willing Pan happy.